Speaking from experience, here. To pick the best pieces of advice from this lengthy reddit thread, I read through quite literally all of the comments, and compiled this list of 15 things she actually wants to hear when you talk dirty to her in the sack. How much I'm desired. Nothing is sexier when my man tells me how much he wants me. I'm so fucking lucky. I love when I get close and he tells me to cum for him. I like being told what you want to do to me. Especially when it is unexpected.
Betty, 48, Cardiff
The Context When Talking Dirty
You've mastered the bedroom eyes and sexy lingerie, but what about the pillow talk? To ease you into the sexy banter, we chatted with Dana Myers, founder of Booty Parlor , about tips and tricks for talking dirty. The beauty expert and sex goddess had suggestions for beginners and shy girls alike, and assures us that even she still has to practice occasionally. Marie Claire: To start off, how would you define dirty talk? The phrase feels so intimidating! Dana Myers: It does feel scary. People will often clam up and think, "I can't do that! Women can use lingerie or toys or just their voice, and best of all, it'll be totally unique to you. Women can be soft and sleek and still a little naughty, or racy and raunchy and way out there, and anywhere in the middle!
Online dating agency, Saucy Dates , has revealed what men and women prefer to hear between the sheets. Curious to find out more about what others like, I asked 11 people to tell me their favourite phrases in the bedroom. I lie still and basically do pelvic floor exercises to make it move. But, last year I had a brief online fling with a guy who kept saying that he was the alpha male of all males and that I should call him daddy. What I like to hear can vary, if they talk too much I find it irritating and just want them to shut up. The show is available now on iTunes here and on Soundcloud here. Metro bloggers Miranda Kane and Bibi Lynch co-host the show, chatting to a different guest about all things sex and relationships each week.
I've been seeing my boyfriend for over a year. I think our sex life is really great, however my boyfriend keeps asking me to talk dirty and I can't seem to get my head around it. I'm pretty shy and I don't even know where to start.